takes you step by step into the murky waters of what, when, and how to
reveal the truth about anything in your past - to the man in your life.
Many women have written to me
with this very important question:
"How much should I reveal to a
man about my past?"
Introducting "To Tell or Not To Tell - What to Do
When He Wants To Know About Your
Past - and What To Do If You Already Told Him Things You Regret"!
"I used to believe in full disclosure,
but, I have learned it is not a good idea. I told my soon to be
ex-husband something about my past, years ago. His imagination is
too vivid, and so, our marriage is now over. Next time I date a man,
I will tell him as little as possible about my past."
-- Natalie (not her real name)
kind of past are we talking about? To you, it may be one thing - to him,
it may seem like something entirely different. It's important to
understand how men think so you can really be prepared for this challenging
facet of most relationships!
For many, many women, their so-called "past" is a topic
that will come up at some point in a relationship that matters to them. This potential landmine needs to be handled with extreme
care - even if you may think that this couldn't apply to you and your
The "past" can mean many things. We're talking mainly
about your past romantic life, including the number of men you may have
been intimate with – and whether any future man in your life has the right to
know or even ask you about the facts about your past love life.
Even a great man may temporarily become fixated on
your past, until you set him straight. The reason for this sometimes is because
he's falling in love with you.
The good news is that in almost every case, it is possible
to regain your dignity and his admiration, even if you have made the mistake of
telling your man something you wish you had not revealed – because either it was
not necessary or because he was not able to handle it well.
"To Tell Or Not"
is an instant download and get these answers right
Here are some
of the topics we talk about in "To Tell or Not
You Think This Will Last, So You Reveal Too Much
The Dangers of Revealing the Past
Very Few Men Have the Right to Even Ask About
Does He Really Need to Know? Why?
Even Wonderful Men Can't Handle the "Past" – More
Often Than You Might Think
Men Who Want to Know Your Past for the Wrong
Men Who Use Your Past Against You
What You Reveal to Him May Not Stay Private
I Want To Tell Him About THAT!"
Most Readers Agree: Think Twice about Sharing
What To Do When a Man Wants to Talk About Your
Dealing With Regret and Remorse
Virgin or Not? When will that be his business??
When He Wants to Know How Many Men You Have Slept
Risks of Being "Open and Honest"
The Difference Between Discretion and Secrets
Medical Issues - what should you talk about, and
Should you use humor at a time like this?
How to Talk to Him about Your Past
When He Won't Stop Asking
What if he keeps talking about HIS past?
What to Say When He's Obsessed with his
How To Recover When You've Revealed Too Much Too